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Rachel Raven
Rachel Raven

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I’m A Demisexual Former Escort

My sexuality affected my work. And vice versa. — Twenty years ago when I was an escort, I hadn’t ever heard of the term demisexuality. Even if I had, I don’t think I would have applied it to myself. It’s only in hindsight, when I look at my past sexual experiences, that I can frame my sexuality in that…

Relationships

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I’m A Demisexual Former Escort
I’m A Demisexual Former Escort
Relationships

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Published in Sexography

·Dec 12, 2022

Why My Life is Sexier With Less Sex

You would be wrong if you think being a former escort means more sex. — You would think a former escort would have lots of sex. Alas, I am now married. In fact, despite being married, I find myself having far less sex than I thought I would. However, that doesn’t bother me. I have found that having a solid connection and intimate conversations with…

Sex

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Why My Life is Sexier With Less Sex
Why My Life is Sexier With Less Sex
Sex

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Published in Rachel Raven

·Mar 13, 2021

Can you be a demisexual sex worker?

Can you be a demisexual sex worker? In the piece I am working on now, I answer this question by exploring my own sexuality. My reflection on this time in…

Sex Work

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Sex Work

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Published in MyErotica.com

·Mar 3, 2021

My Secret Sex Confession

And I don’t need any absolution. — It’s been two years and two months since my last confession. My confession to you that I needed more. I needed you in my life, yes. But I also needed to explore my sexuality. And I wanted to do it by selling my body. Why sell my body? In actuality…

Erotica

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My Secret Sex Confession
My Secret Sex Confession
Erotica

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Mar 3, 2021

I would like to tell you about my latest piece. It is actually erotic fiction.

I would like to tell you about my latest piece. It is actually erotic fiction. I have written past sexy stories before. They usually are inspired by my real life…

Erotica

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Erotica

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Published in Rachel Raven

·Feb 25, 2021

When you work as an escort, often the most lucrative jobs are called “out calls.”

When you work as an escort, often the most lucrative jobs are called “out calls.” In calls are at the place of business, in my case a massage parlor. Out calls take place in a home or hotel room. …

Sexuality

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Sexuality

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Published in Sexography

·Apr 1, 2020

Navigating Cultural Shifts in Casual Sex

We all own our sexualities no matter what culture tells us. — Casual sex, especially between strangers, can make great fantasy. But, I have some conflicted feelings about doing it in real life. I’m not speaking from the perspective of a prude — I am a former escort. …

Modern Sex

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Navigating Cultural Shifts in Casual Sex
Navigating Cultural Shifts in Casual Sex
Modern Sex

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Published in Sexography

·Jan 11, 2020

My Vibrator Was My First Love

My initiation into solo sex taught me a lot about myself. — First loves are supposed to herald in a whole new world, opening you up to new feelings and perspectives you never had before. You might think I experienced this when I lost my virginity. We did whisper “I love you,” many times in our warm embrace. …

Sex

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My Vibrator Was My First Love
My Vibrator Was My First Love
Sex

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Published in Sexography

·Dec 31, 2019

My Threesome Wasn’t Like Gay Porn

I wish reality could be as sexy as fantasies. — I imagine myself telling the two men exactly what to do when I watch gay porn. They are in the vulnerable position of being watched. It gives me an incredible sense of control. And I’m not alone. …

Sex

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My Threesome Wasn’t Like Gay Porn
My Threesome Wasn’t Like Gay Porn
Sex

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Published in Sexography

·Dec 21, 2019

Why My Sex Work Prevented Female Friendships

I couldn’t be close to women when I was an escort. — For years, most of my interactions socially were with men. This was true to some extent before I was an escort. But when I entered into sex work, my relationships were even more limited. Before I was an escort, I went to an engineering-focused college. There, I didn’t have many…

Sex

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Why My Sex Work Prevented Female Friendships
Why My Sex Work Prevented Female Friendships
Sex

7 min read

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Rachel Raven

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